in out or inbetweens...

this is just me & my thoughts (observations) and if any seems too close to heart or it's u, well...its you then or someone u think u know.

its all about relationship status, whether u read or see them in various social sites; some prefer to be ambiguous. why?

they used words like it's complicated.

come on. what is complicated?

unless u are avril singing...

Either you are in or not? single or not? say it! if you are looking...say so, if you are attached, say so. wat the f*Ck is complicated?

I'm sure your other half (presuming your loved ones) would not like to hear, ooo we are complicated.

So by that,

1. the one who wrote that is not sure about the relationship - claiming love is complicated yet want the whole world to sympathize...

2. he or she is gay. Without telling the whole world, about his/her sexuality, just say its complicated. enuf said.

in a open-relationship.

now tat's like the given pass to go and meet others, or there something going on with the relationship.

*****

Over the years, i realised there are quite a number of let's just say, confused guys - who claimed to be straight and used the word - 'in touch with my sensitive sides', while they act all camp and touchy-feely with the opposites sex and stare at guys openly. yes! i came across hmm...just say a few lah, young (pre-uni, in uni) and old matured (married)

well, i guess its difficult to distinguish between straight & gay- they way they act, they talk and dress. society is coming up with various terms: metrosexual, trisexual, iblowbutimstraightsexual, ienjoyabtbitoffunsexual. i dunno.

best (so far) i heard is...'i know alot of my gay friends wish i am, but i'm not. yeah!' then he go staring at guys & acting like he is the straightest dude in da house, in his best effort. bless him.

worse, there are gals going after. goodness! well, like they say love is blind. or they just love a circus!

They are smart people, no doubt, just do not want to admit who they are. Of course, there are reasons for that. But seriously, if you know you are, why bother to snog or boast about your 'straightness'? u know...all the talk, none the action ---and so i heard.

the worse of the bunch is those confused guys got hitched & have kids.

In front- all happy hoo-hah; behind close doors- one can only imagine. So what they do, cruise in swimming pools, various activities in different area codes, in secret hideout, looking for guys in various social website like friendster or facebook or havesexwithmesites; while i'm sure the wife knows but cannot do anything besides shop and work. Well, gal- all i can say...u married a sexually confused guy, u know wat you getting urself. If you think u can change him, or unbend him, think again!

These 'childbearing' wives are not your uneducated ones, they could well be power woman too. So i do not really know why? Just keep an eye out, you will spot them, cos i think i spotted a few.

As for the confused man, u will see loads too and it's pretty norm- working in high & low posts, private or nonprivate, broadcasters or broadshoulders. Trust me, i heard loads of married man loved some fun on the sides with men. So i do wonder, does having sex with the same sex counts as adultery?